Mantles over Martyrdom

From My Heart to Yours​

 

This workshop is my thank you.  My give-back. My love offering to a community of women who have unknowingly watered my call just by surviving theirs. Mantles Over Martyrdom was birthed from my own breaking but it’s being given from my overflow. This isn’t about being the teacher in the room. This is about coming together, as sisters, to name what we carried before we had language for it.
To acknowledge the quiet weight. To honor the resilience we didn’t always choose. And to finally say: enough martyrdom, there is a mantle for this. You have helped push me deeper into purpose without even realizing it. Your stories, your strength, your presence have been confirmation after confirmation that this work matters. So on my birthday, I’m inviting you to gather with me not just to grieve what was lost, but to celebrate what’s still alive.

 

Yes, the topic is tender. Yes, we will tell the truth about the tears. But this will still be a celebration.
Of your voice. Your becoming. Your throne. This is sacred space but it’s also a safe one. And I’m honored to gift it back to the women who’ve taught me, inspired me, and walked beside me whether you knew it or not.

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xoxo Joy

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But life taught you to bleed for it instead. Maybe you were the oldest. Maybe you weren’t. But you were always the one people leaned on. The one expected to hold it together. The one who got called “strong” before she ever felt safe. Somewhere along the way, you confused carrying crosses with wearing crowns.

Let’s be clear: You didn’t choose martyrdom. It was handed to you—wrapped in expectations, spiritual language, and survival. But now Heaven is handing you something different. 

 

A mantle.

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Not for performance.
Not for perfection.
But for purpose.

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This is your invitation…​

To breathe.
To lay it down.
To remember the sound of your own name.

This isn’t just a birthday workshop.
It’s a sacred return.

 

A revival for the women who became everything for everyone and forgot how to just be. 

If you’re the one who always shows up…
The emotional anchor.
The responsible one.
The leader. The fixer. The "safe space."
The woman everyone depends on even when she’s falling apart…

This space was made specifically for you.

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What to Expect:​

 

A revelatory teaching that dismantles the lie that suffering = sanctification
Prophetic insight into why you’ve always been the one picked first—for pain and for purpose
A quiet space to reconnect with the you beneath all the roles
A soft unveiling of the Healed Not Hardened movement
Permission to stop surviving and start reigning