Hello, meet Joy
Joy is a best-selling author, trauma-informed certified life coach, and Minister of the Gospel. She is passionate about guiding survivors of narcissistic abuse on a transformative journey toward wholeness. Through her organization, Pink Girl Teaches, Joy has created a sanctuary of healing, empowerment, and faith for those who have endured narcissistic abuse and childhood sexual assault.
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My Story
My name is Joy Mpezeni, but many know me as "Pink Girl Teaches." My journey has been one of profound pain, resilience, and ultimately, transformation. I am a survivor of childhood sexual assault and domestic violence, which culminated in the arrest of my ex-husband and our subsequent divorce. These experiences have deeply shaped my mission: to Build Bridges to Rebuild Lives.
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Everything I create is born out of my own journey of healing. I remember the isolation and the desperate search for resources that truly resonated with my struggles. This is why I am dedicated to providing the support and tools that I wished I had access to during my darkest moments.
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As a Spirit-Led, Trauma-Informed Certified Life Coach specializing in Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, I guide my clients with unwavering passion and empathy. My approach integrates both psychological and spiritual dimensions, offering a comprehensive path to healing. My mission is to help others navigate their journey towards meaning, dignity, purpose, hope, and love.
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My life story is one of overcoming adversity. Having survived childhood sexual assault and domestic violence, and having emerged from the depths of two failed suicide attempts, my resilience and faith have become the cornerstone of my work. These experiences uniquely equip me to connect deeply with those I support, making me a beacon of hope and strength for others on their healing journey.
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In May 2024, I achieved Amazon bestseller status with the release of the anthology Rising Above Narcissistic Abuse vol. 2. My book Fearless serves as a beacon of hope, dismantling the misconceptions of a scary and unsafe world, and empowering readers to seek internal validation and embrace their true selves. Additionally, I have created guided self-awareness journals, Bloom and Breathe, tailored specifically for survivors of narcissistic abuse, along with prayer and devotional journals.
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I extend my reach through my YouTube channel and TikTok page, providing invaluable resources for victims, survivors, and thrivers. I have also built the Fearless Community, a safe space where healing happens in community, reinforcing my belief that together, we can overcome and thrive.
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By sharing my story and insights, I aim not only to inspire but also to actively transform lives. I embody the principles of faith, resilience, and the unwavering pursuit of wholeness. My mission is to help others realize their potential in Christ and to guide them on their journey towards healing and freedom.
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Discover more about my journey and insights!
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Dive into the latest interview with Joy Mpezeni, the heart behind Pink Girl Teaches. Learn about her mission, passion, and the transformative work she's doing for survivors of narcissistic abuse.
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What Does Pink Girl Teaches Mean?
A question I frequently get asked is, "What does Pink Girl Teaches mean, and how did you come up with that?" The truth is, I can't take full credit for the name. On February 2, 2011, amidst personal turmoil and confusion, I felt a strong urge to step away from playing with my children and grab a notebook and pen. I sat down and began to write, pouring out everything that was spoken to me for hours. When I finally stopped, I felt a profound peace, as if I had released everything I needed onto the pages of my notepad.
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As I read over my notes, I felt inspired, impressed, and scared all at once. I had written down the blueprint of the ministry God had given me. Despite being in the midst of my storm, battling low self-esteem, poor self-worth, and dealing with abandonment and rejection issues, the words on the paper described a woman who was confident, purposeful, and passionate about what she does, who she is, and most importantly, who she belongs to.
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Among the words, I saw "PINK GIRL TEACHES INC." At first, I thought it was cute, but I soon realized there was a deeper meaning behind the name.
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PINK: Beyond being my favorite color and a symbol of my girly nature, the color pink holds significant psychological meaning. It is often associated with compassion, calmness, innocence, optimism, and emotional healing. Pink is seen as a soothing and calming color, believed to reduce feelings of aggression, anger, and anxiety. It represents warmth, nurturing, and empathy, making it a color of kindness and understanding. Pink evokes a sense of innocence and youthfulness, symbolizing playfulness and purity. It inspires feelings of optimism and hope, often associated with positive outcomes and a brighter outlook on life. In therapeutic settings, pink promotes emotional healing and comfort, helping individuals feel safe and supported. This was everything my 4-year-old self craved and longed for, and it is what I aim to pour not just back into myself, but into the lives and souls assigned to my mission and purpose.
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GIRL: My 4-year-old self felt alone, riddled with guilt, shame, self-loathing, and mourning the loss of her innocence. I longed to return to the day before my life changed and my foundation shattered. But God revealed that I was not alone. Statistics show that 1 in 4 girls are sexually assaulted by age 18, meaning there are millions of little girls just like me out there. God would use me as a bridge to help these wounded inner girls cross over with a message of healing and wholeness, guiding them to become the women God intended them to be.
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TEACHES: My healing journey was unique and transformative. One day, after reading Matthew 13:24-30 and Luke 8:43-48, it was as though the doors of a psychological prison flung open, and I was set free. I spent that entire night in prayer and worship, and when I rose, I was not the same. I felt as though I touched the hem of His garment. The Holy Spirit taught me and walked with me through my healing, and therapy also played a part in my healing journey. On February 2, 2011 I was given the blueprint for my ministry and business. My experiences uniquely equip me to connect with and support women like me in their healing journey, all by teaching what I was taught.
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Pink Girl Teaches is more than a platform for survivors of narcissistic abuse or childhood sexual assault. It is a ministry birthed by the Holy Spirit, where I Build Bridges to REBUILD Lives.
This vision didn’t come to pass immediately. I had a process to go through, and as I write this, I am overwhelmed with so many emotions. I see the vision coming to life and, looking back over the years, I can see how God orchestrated everything to come to pass. I am living in answered prayer and walking in the shoes of a woman who once intimidated me. The humbling part is that there is still so much more written in that notepad that has not yet come to pass but is starting to spring forth.
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None of this would be possible without God. I remember crying out to Him in desperation, begging Him to heal my heart. I made a vow that if He stopped the pain, I would go back and help as many people as I possibly could. Now my vow is, "Send me, and I will go. Wherever you lead me, I will follow. Whatever you tell me to say, I will say."
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If there is one thing I want to be known for when I am long gone, it is being a soul winner for the Kingdom of God. I am in a privileged position to do this through healing and delivering survivors from the grips of narcissistic abuse and childhood sexual assault.
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