Welcome to Pink Girl Teaches
A Holy Spirit-breathed movement where healing meets strategy, truth breaks cycles, and men and women rebuild their lives after narcissistic abuse, soul sabotage, and deep spiritual warfare.
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This is where survivors become restorers of the ruins. Where pain becomes prophecy, and oil flows from what should have destroyed you. This is where we trade crushed places for divine construction.
Welcome to The REBUILD Collective™
Welcome to The Oil & Brick Society™
My Journey
I know what it’s like to be the strong one, the one who prays, pours, pushes through… and still ends up rejected, isolated, and emotionally wrecked by the people you loved the most.
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I know what it’s like to grow up around emotional chaos and narcissistic dysfunction, to search for safety in all the wrong places, and to enter a marriage that looked holy on the outside but felt like spiritual torment on the inside.
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I’ve cried out. Collapsed. Doubted God. I’ve whispered prayers like, “Lord, if You don’t come get me, I won’t make it.” But He came. And when He did, He didn’t just rescue me, He rebuilt me.
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I became a Trauma-Informed Christian Life Coach, authored books and journals, led thousands through the fire, and created biblically grounded, Spirit-filled healing tools to help others get free and stay free.
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Why Pink Girl Teaches?
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On February 2, 2011, in the middle of personal chaos, I heard a divine whisper. I picked up my pen and wrote what I now know was the blueprint of my calling. The words
“PINK GIRL TEACHES INC.” were written at the top of the page. What started as a healing journal became the foundation of this ministry.
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PINK represents the healing I longed for as a child, compassion, calm, emotional safety.
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GIRL speaks to the 4-year-old version of me who felt broken, unseen, and silenced… and to every other little girl or little boy trapped in grown-up pain.
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TEACHES declares my calling, to pass on everything God poured into me during my darkest seasons.
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This isn’t just a platform. It’s a deliverance ecosystem. It’s a place for the broken, the silenced, and the misused to encounter the God who heals, trains, and sends.
What we do
Through the REBUILD Collective, I equip men and women with:
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Workshops, courses, and mentorship rooted in faith and psychological strategy
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Tools to heal from narcissistic abuse and emotional trauma
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Spiritual warfare teachings that expose demonic patterns and unlock biblical authority
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A sacred space to deconstruct false identity and rebuild on God's Word
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Inside The Oil & Brick Society™, we train those who’ve already walked through the fire—and are ready to build legacy with oil still dripping from their crushing.
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This is where cycle-breakers become build
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What you will get
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You’ll get biblical wisdom that challenges you.
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Brutal honesty that wakes you up.
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Practical strategy that moves you forward.
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And a community that sees you and says, “We’re rebuilding with you.”
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Explore our free resources. Dive into our courses. Attend a live event.
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Or just sit and soak until you're strong enough to rise
What you won't get
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This ain’t a perfect ministry. I don’t perform.
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I don’t water it down. I don’t do polished pity parties.
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You won’t get fluff or fake smiles here.
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You’ll get truth, always wrapped in compassion, and pointed back to the One who never left you.
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I won’t pretend to have all the answers. But I will point you to the God who healed me, and is still rebuilding me daily.
Narcissistic Abuse Healing Journal
Overcome Imposter Syndrome
Break the Cycle of
Self-Sabotage
Boundaries Blueprint
Joy Mpezeni
Books
Rebuild 2025
Rebuild Your Inner Sanctuary Retreat
Courses